Portrait Of A Seeker Of Essence
Blog for the novel, "Portrait Of A Seeker Of Essence," which is about a few years in the life of a musician and his personal and spiritual changes. The novel can be read at www.portraitofaseekerofessence.name. Please feel free to post comments on a chapter by chapter basis, before you've finished reading the entire novel. Please use reasonable language. Thanks - Russell Kolish, Author - Click on the lowest thread title on the left and ten additional titles will come up.
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T0 - General Comments
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T1 - Childhood - Chapter 1
T2 - Sensitivity - C 1
Sensitive: subject to excitation by or responsive to stimuli; having power of feeling; of such a nature as to be easily affected. Certainly Gableplunk is such a person. I read a book once although, unfortunately, I forget its name other wise I’d mention it, that made a case for twenty percent of people being sensitive, twenty percent being semi-sensitive and sixty percent of people being insensitive. I found this hard to believe however afterwards I began to observe people more closely and after a couple of years came to agree - approximately. Strikes me as sad. Just one more reason that
the world has always been in bad shape.
I’m tired of all the people who have no respect, who are
insensitive or desensitized and sometimes just plain
stupid. I know people get ground up by life and
occasionally blow up or treat other people badly. This
isn’t the type of behavior I’m talking about. What I’m
talking about are the hard core people, the ones who
are quite capable of stomping all over other people the
majority of the time. The people who are capable of
behaviors and making decisions that cause other
people to suffer and their own children and
grandchildren to degenerate health wise because they
have poisoned the environment physically, spiritually
and psychologically. I used to feel sorry for those
people but now I just ignore them. Have I become
desensitized, too? Have you?
I guess we can’t live with constantly bleeding hearts
because it’s too debilitating. Some solutions might be
part-time, time share sensitivity or giving to charity
(charity begins at home) but it’s tricky business.
Where do you draw the line between sensitivity and
shutting down? How do YOU handle this?
T3 - Oppositions - C 1
resistance or contrast; to strive against; a hostility:
a contrariness; a setting against something on the
other side.
This is a recipe for CONFLICT, ranging between low
levels like the inner personality characteristic of
contrariness all the way to the extremely high level
outer phenomenon of personal, national and
international warfare.
We all suffer from inner conflicts and this can make
us dissatisfied and unresolved. We’re constantly on
edge and sometimes we run up against
circumstances or other people that take us over the
edge. If we don’t have the skills and resources
(moral: get skills, get resources) to handle the
situations or people we make mistakes or flare into
conflict. This can result in kicking ourselves for the
mistake afterwards, arguments or if we have
political power on the scale of Presidents and
Advisors, warfare.
There are myriad reasons why we’re so conflicted.
Can you analyze one of yours (the reasons and the
conflict) and present it as comment(s)?
T4 - Higher Ethics - C 2
Our principles come from everywhere: our cultures, families, religions, other cultures and their ideas. Common sense. I choose mine mostly by common sense and then examine them over time, years and decades. I'll consider anything and accept it or reject it if 1) it takes me in a direction I want to go or 2) improves my outlook either spiritually, emotionally or financially, preferably all three but this is not often the case.
I like my higher ethics to be inclusive and compassionate.
T5 - Life Sucks - C 2
Life sucks. All our institutions are corrupt as are our representatives in society whether they be politicians or priests. I can't stand it. Where can I fit in and maintain even the tiniest sense of integrity? I think I'm depressed.
T6 - Change - C 2
T7 - Idyllic Living - C 3
T8 - Loneliness And Approval - C 3
T9 - Dreams - C 4
T10 - Ambivalence - C 4
Judy said to me when I asked her whether she was feeling any ambivalence, "Ambivalence is a word near and dear to my heart. I'm getting married but I'm torn between my desire to get married because it seems that it'll be so fulfilling and repulsion from it because it seems that I'll be giving up so much to do it. Repulsion seems a strong word for giving up activities that have always brought me a wide ranging mixture of feelings and satisfactions, some good and some terrible, so I'll be giving up these things in favor of a better state or so I hope. But what if we end up disliking each other and get divorced in a few years? I know lots of people who loved each other before they were married and now don't. What am I getting into? Am I ready to give up on a lot of things I basically enjoy? What's going to happen? It all seems a crap shoot to me."
T11 - Ideals - C 4
T12 - Lost Friends - C 4
T13 - Reliance - C 4
T14 - Heros And Heroines - C 4
T15 - Old Things New Things - C 4
T16 - Limpid Child - C 5
T17 - Loss - C 5
I know a couple of people who lost their spouses after only a few years. They died in car accidents. My friends were emotionally dead for a couple of years. Memories seemed to be their companions and memorabilia their textures. After work they told me they'd come home and sit around with images of their partners floating through their minds. Each of them went through periods during which they’d caress and smell their partner’s clothes especially the favorite trademark items, the ones that hadn't been cleaned when they died. Pictures took my friends on constant journeys to places they’d been. Eventually they pulled out of their hypnotic depressions and became more or less normal again. Their grief was a strange process to watch. I don’t look forward to it.
T18 - Ego - C 5
T19 - Essence - C 5
Essence is an ethereal and ephemeral thing. I ask myself 'Who am I?' 'What am I?' Sometimes I can answer those questions but every time I have more than a minute or two to really concentrate and delve into them I lose it. I lose the feeling or the knowledge of whatever insight I thought I had. My comprehension slips away as my thoughts become more and more insubstantial until I'm left with..... I don't know what. It's frustrating so I leave it for another time.
Monday
T20 - Porn - C 6 - Also Dating, Sex, Relationship Theories, Opinions, Frustrations.....
1) Sex is good (goodness). We are here because of sex. We are good people.
2) NORP are good. So are images of NORP.
3) ...see other people's comments...
Anti-NORP:
1) Western religions.
2) Prudes.
3) Control freaks.
4) ...see other people's comments...
T21 - Impasses - C 6
T22 - Chess As Metaphor - C 6
In my mystical journeys throughout our solar systems I come across many games. Chess is one of the more fascinating games because it's so easy to project my illusions onto the board. On Earth, GO is another game of equal complexity which develops one's sense of space (obviously I would like that) and even international politics, as the goal of GO is to surround your opponent's buttons. Can you also see the familial psychological implications of this? Chess simulates warfare and is therefore a good training ground for people interested in the military or corporate strategies. Chess and GO are filled with terminology which is easily adapted for metaphoric use about many topics from simple ones like division, beauty, power, personality, up to and including life and death. Chess is a wonderful source for literary metaphors. When among Chess players, conversations run wild with references to everything under the sun. The number of things that can be expressed through Chess talk is endless. That's why it's popular among people who like to philosophize. What are your experiences with Chess?
T23 - Illusions - C 6 and 7
Everything has many layers. How do we get to the bottom line (foundation, base, ground)? According to Gableplunk meditation is the path to follow for release. I think that's true at least in our lifetimes.
What if there's another possibility for memory, that of memory being located outside of us, outside of our bodies, our nervous systems? This is a theory of occultists of various disciplines which claim that we 'receive' our memories from this outside place in a similar manner as does a radio or television, by radio waves, and in the case of our memories, by psychic waves. I don't know how accurately I've described the method of this kind of receipt of our memories but the idea of our memories being located somewhere other than inside of us, in our brains or nervous systems, seems like it might be worth an examination.
Observing ourselves we notice through self awareness that our identities must be capable of monitoring our feelings and behaviors and directing us to (hopefully) better behaviors and feelings which create better memories which create (hopefully) better feelings and behaviors.
So, through our identities, which are illusions, we create more mnemonic illusions but (hopefully) better ones, more mature ones based on monitored and directed experiences. Thus, as we observe ourselves through self awareness, we seem to change.
Illusions can be self-generating, reproductive, replicative, self-perpetuating. Are our illusions real? As real as, say, birds or germs? How do they get into us? Are identities necessary for illusions to procreate? Are we inseparable?
If 'I think therefore I am' is incorrect then what might be correct is 'I SENSE therefore I am.' In this case, what is it that senses? Our nervous system. Are we merely our nervous system? The answer is, yes.
This thinking goes round and round. Maya, the cycle of illusions. When your mind is cycling you're experiencing an illusion. Meditation is release, at least temporarily: our best change.
T24 - Self Examination - C 7
The best way for me was to first learn to define what I was feeling - put correct labels on all my feelings and emotions. Once I was able to bring some order to all those seemingly random occurrences I was able to see patterns, recognize situations or events which would precipitate similar feelings. Soon enough I felt more comfortable with myself, less frightened. Over a few years everything else fell slowly into place.
I also had to study some philosophy and logic in order to build my own mental structures, my own scaffolding on which I could erect my newly forming self. Believe it or not Algebra helped enormously! The study of the abstracts of relating symbols trained my mind to be able think logically and also be able to accept radically (or so I thought at the time) new ideas which were at first utterly foreign to me. Eventually I came to enjoy this facet of mathematics and bring it to bear in other areas of my life, among them introspection. It trained my memory until I could relate thought after thought going forwards or backwards and thus I was able to build intellectual structures and the capability to understand almost anything.
I consider my life a success story having come from confusion and loneliness to confidence, thoughtfulness, compassion and willingness to hear opinions other than my own. In this sense my life is a pleasure.
T25 - Initiations - C 7
I remember my initiation into the Cub Scouts. Freaky little kids. Running around in the woods, making campfires, trying to figure out what the creed meant. Then there were the fraternities in high school and college. More freaky kids, only bigger. Initiations were a little more goofy, even strange at times. I couldn't bring myself to join those clubs. I think any initiation into a group which has some meaning for you can provide deep insight into yourself, your desires, motivations and capabilities as you gain experience. It's been a pleasure writing about Gableplunk and his initiations into some of the mysteries of life. This is the group I finally joined. What groups have you joined?
T26 - Meditation - C 7
What is meditation? From Gableplunk, it's awareness without egotistical relationship. No‑mind. Selfless awareness. A state in which the mind is relaxed and no attention is given by itself to its own machinations. Thoughts and images may freely come and go but they are experienced as one experiences nature, as an unbroken panorama of scenic occurrences, without making judgments of the value of anything, that is, without (egotistical) involvement. 'Egotistical' is an abstract word which simply means, yourself or your sense of yourself. So, without involving yourself with any particular aspect of the panorama. See it like you would look at the Grand Canyon, with awe, with amazement, with the eyes of someone who is having a picnic and enjoying nature. In this state life is beautiful.
T27 - Zen - C 7
There are many paths to Zen.
There's the slow way, the fast way, the upside down way,
The book way, the teacher way, the way of meditation.
Follow the moon, follow nature, follow the rainbow.
All will get you there.
T28 - Destiny - C 8
T29 - Romance - C 8
Sunday
T30 - Resolution - C 8
T31 - Taking Part - C 9
T32 - Quest For The Rose - C 10
T33 - WAINTS - C 10
T34 - Dreams - C 10
T36 - Unconscious, Soul and Unknowability - C 10
Unconscious, soul and unknowability. Helluva group. They seem similar, words from different disciplines, but similar..... hard to tell where one ends and another begins. Personally I've never been able to figure out what a soul is. Oh, I understand the common meaning, that part of us which is immortal, but I've never felt it or seen it or experienced its presence in any way so it's hard for me to comprehend what it is. I've talked to Priests about it and they each have given me more or less the same definition and tell me that I have to develop my faith. When I've asked them 'what is faith?' they tell me it's belief in something or someone without evidence. I can't understand this. It's so contrary to reasonable thinking and behavior. I'm told, 'that's the point. Faith begins where rationality ends.' That makes no sense to me. I'm to make a jump from reasonable thinking to irrational belief in things which make no sense? Okay. Give it a chance. Makes no sense to me but I'm aware that several thousand million people do this. I wonder why and how? I'm guessing that this other type of thinking-feeling is put into their heads when they're children when they're undeveloped in all ways and will believe almost anything that other people tell them. It doesn't seem fair to me to put irrational ideas into the minds of children when they can't defend themselves. At least parents ought to explain to their children that there are all sorts of strange beliefs in the world and they ought to learn about as many as they can before choosing which ones they'd like to indulge in when they're eighteen or twenty one or older. But, I suppose this would be like throwing all religions into a hat and telling kids that they're all more or less equal so pick a few, consider them over the years and pick one you like or don't pick any at all. This would probably be anathema to all religions who thrive on exclusivity and bolster their identities by offering their followers all sorts of claptrap which makes them feel more important and better than everyone else. These tactics are shrewd psychology used to lure people and then manipulate them for various reasons. It seems sad to me that this goes on, the Pied Pipers and the Lemmings of the religions of the world. It always seems to end up in wars, another crazy form of political manipulation of the masses, again, for one reason or another..... by one power block against another, by another vested interest over yet another. I guess this is human nature and all people take part in it either as leaders or (vicarious) followers. But you know, no one has to sign up for this. You can just ignore it and go your own way (except in countries that have zero freedom - I know, I know, there are a lot of people who proclaim that our freedom in America is only an illusion and that we're all manipulated from cradle to grave on every level imaginable and this is, in effect, the same situation that people are in in countries that have no guarantees of freedom or even the slightest illusion of providing it.). Nevertheless even in those places you can ignore the maniacs at least in your own head while giving lip service to those who would kill you for your thoughts. Like in Europe in the dark and middle ages and in the middle east in modern times.